There are topics everyone thinks about but few dare to talk about out loud. Dates with escorts are one of them. And no, we’re not going to get into moral lectures or endless debates about whether it’s right or wrong. We’re here to speak clearly, with a bit of cheek, but also with common sense. Because if you’ve already made the decision to set up a date with a pleasure professional, there are a few things you’d better know before diving in without thinking too much.
So, if you’re planning your first date with an escort, stick around, because this will interest you. Let’s break it down.
- Do your research first
Before you start messaging any girl you find on the internet like you’re sending your résumé, the first thing you should do is research. Where did you find her profile? Does she have references? Are the photos real or taken from Pinterest? Because yes, in this world there are scams, fake profiles, and more than one “expert” trying to mess with you.
Avoid shady websites like you avoid your ex on the street. Sites like Santiagocitas, Eros, and some private forums have better reputations, but remember: having a good reputation doesn’t mean everything is legal or safe. This isn’t Amazon. There are no returns or five-star reviews that can help you if you get into trouble.
- Be clear, but respectful
This might seem obvious, but for some reason there are people who still don’t get it: an escort is a professional, not a magic lamp that grants wishes while you treat her like garbage.
Be direct, yes. Say what you’re looking for, what you expect, your limits and doubts. But do it politely. Don’t be the typical creep who thinks he’s a porn star and starts spewing dirty talk from the first message. Spoiler: that won’t get you anywhere. And if it does, it might not be what you were hoping for…
- Don’t even think about bargaining
This isn’t the Sunday flea market. Can you imagine going to a restaurant and telling the waiter, “What if I pay half for the dish and you still serve it?” No, right? Same here. If you can’t afford it, don’t go.
Haggling is one of the biggest turn-offs for professional escorts. It shows disrespect, desperation, and often a red flag so huge it’s visible from space.
- Hygiene
Wash your private parts thoroughly before the meeting. Brush your teeth. Use deodorant. The very least you can do is show up clean and decent to someone who’s going to share intimacy with you.
And while we’re at it: if you have any health issues (STIs, allergies, whatever), say so. It’s not funny to hide important stuff. Don’t turn a date into a minefield.
- Always ask for consent
Not everything is allowed just because you’re paying. An escort isn’t a robot programmed to obey. If you want to try something, ask. If she says no, it’s no. As with any intimate encounter, consent is non-negotiable.
And heads up: don’t record anything without permission. That’s not just bad manners — it could get you in serious legal trouble.
- Emotions aren’t always your friends
Yes, it can happen. Sometimes you feel so comfortable, so heard, so well taken care of, that your wires get crossed. You start thinking she’s different. That you really understand each other. That this isn’t just a job — there’s a connection. Wrong.
An escort can be kind, sweet, empathetic. But that doesn’t mean she’s in love with you. She’s attending to you as a client, not as a partner. Don’t confuse good service with a Netflix love story.
- Say goodbye like a gentleman
When the date ends, don’t rush off like you just stole something. Be courteous, say thank you, and if the experience was good, let her know. You can even leave a tip (if it’s within your means). No need to write her poems afterward or start building fantasies in your head — but a proper goodbye is always appreciated.
Ready for your date?
The first date with an escort isn’t a game, but it doesn’t have to be a tense or awkward experience either. If you go with respect, clarity, and common sense, it can be a pleasant, safe, and even eye-opening encounter. Just remember that no matter how much you pay, you’re interacting with a person who deserves the same treatment you expect from others.
